I cannot change my e-mail address on the forums. I see that another user had a similar problem. I am running into not being able to reply to that post also (another known problem).
The java.net e-mail is the correct one.
You can change your email address by going to your control panel and choosing "change password". Notice that this will change your email address across Java.net (We will be changing the name of that link).
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