JXTA can not find existing peers
I have created two peers. I am running one on my home ISP provided fast connection. I am also running another one on a hosted linux account. rdvconfig on both accounts shows that both peers are connected to standard randezvous peers. When I do peers -r and later peers both show lists of peers and sometimes these lists have common elements. However it is very rarely that I can see one of my peers from the other one if at all. Is there anything that could be tweaked?
All feedback is very welcome!